If the husband changes ...

When did it start? Loss of sleep, constant expectation of something inevitable and doubt: and if the husband changes? It's only that you asked yourself such a question, says about some changes in your relationships with your husband. After all, they were the same, the question would not have been on its own. Adultery was always the strongest blow for both, and not every marriage managed to be saved. Although we must admit that those who still managed to do this, so will torment the question: will not it happen again? Stubborn statistics show that more than half of the men really at least once had a connection on the side.

How to understand that the husband is cheating? The first swallow has already arrived: doubts have appeared. Now take a closer look at the changes. Men are quite successful at concealing treason. And if you really are going to catch the second half in this treason, get proof. But first think: are you ready for this and do you need it? In fact, you are going to blame a loved one for treason, and this is a serious charge that can crack the relationship.

If the husband changes and you are sure of it, start watching. Just do not turn him into a paranoia with persecution. How to understand that the husband is cheating?

Cheating changes a man. Manifestations can be found in the way he suddenly began to watch for himself, how habits have changed. For example, a more frequent change of clothes, shaving, the use of perfumes, unexpectedly started hiking in gyms, frequent business trips. By the way, about business trips ... You can quite "unexpectedly" call your husband at work and unexpectedly hear in response that he is on vacation now. This is clear evidence. You can track the mileage of the car (if, of course, there is one).

If the husband changes, the betrayal will also affectfamily budget. After all, gifts, flowers, payment of a romantic dinner cost money. Try to trace your husband's expenses: credit cards, bills, mobile communications. Mobile phone today is not a luxury, but an indispensable element of everyday life. He will talk about a lot. Quite suspicious may seem the purchase of a new SIM card or a new phone. A detailed call can be made from the city phone, checking all calls (both outgoing and incoming).

Your sex life will also change. If the husband changes, making love will become more rare (or, conversely, too frequent). The attitude towards children (and the family as a whole) will also change. If all thoughts are occupied with a new passion, wait for coolness in the relationship, lack of attention not only to you, but to the children. Although there can be a sense of guilt. In this case, attention and tenderness will be, as they say, over the edge. The signs of treason can be attributed to the absence of the engagement ring on your finger (wrapped in your pocket), and the smell of perfume (obviously not yours), and the "strange" spots on your underwear, and the condoms in the glove compartment of the car.

If the husband changes, then, it is likely that youwill find evidence of treason in the computer. The Internet today came to life the same way as a mobile phone. Perhaps, there was an electronic correspondence (check incoming messages). The browser should store information about the pages visited by the husband. And if the story is missing, it means that it was deleted or appropriate settings were made that do not allow returning to the visited pages. There is an occasion to ponder: why this was done, if there is nothing to hide?

There are a lot of ways. But if the husband changes, intuition will tell you about it. Female intuition can not be explained, but it works flawlessly.

God grant that suspicions are in vain. But if confirmation is found, confessions are received, a new question arises: how to forgive the betrayal of her husband? Can you continue to live with it if the marriage does not disintegrate immediately? Just do not rush. Do not explode immediately. Try to assess the situation soberly, with a cold mind, and maybe, and understand: why he did it. Here it is impossible to give advice. You yourself have to weigh everything and make a decision.